Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Come To Me Like A Child

Children are the most amazing creatures. If we watch them, it is fascinating to see how they learn. It is wondrous how they think. For us to say there is nothing they can teach us, because after all they are just kids, it is just wrong.

So very innocent and naive, their needs so basic. At the same time so dependant upon us to provide for them.

Some of the things I have seen are, for example, their imaginations. When they build with blocks, when they draw. When they sing their made up little songs full of joy with no care as to whether they rhyme or not. There is no limit either, for each child’s imagination is as unique as they are. From super hero’s, to lions and bears. From flying planes to driving trucks and trains. As I said, they are truly a wonderment to watch.

Another thing I have come to learn is, they have no prejudices when they are small. It would appear they are color blind as well, because they don’t give the color of another person’s skin a second thought. All they want to do is be friends and play.

Do they have feelings? You bet; when someone gets hurt, they come to give comfort. When they have done something very spectacular like making a very excellent drawing of a house, and we don’t praise them, or we are too busy to take the time to really look at it, there little eyes tell us their feelings have been deeply hurt.

They are really only born with two fears; the fear of falling, and the fear of loud noises. The rest of the fears they learn from us, and through first hand experience.

Unfortunately, they learn some other things from us that are very unattractive, prejudice, hate, jealousy, these just to name a few. Yet, before they learn all of these things, they are very innocent and all they want is to Love and be Loved.

I think this is what Jesus meant when he said for us to accept him the way these little children did. They do not question, they just know love when they see and feel it. They do not judge. They do not live by a bunch of man made laws. They love to be held and they love to hold. Their love is real. Their love is pure. That is until adults teach them the things that destroy these simple values.

I think it would do us all well to learn this if nothing else from the little children. When we love, it should be real. It should be forgiving; it should be for the right reasons. It does not need to be fancy or elaborate. It does not have to be complicated. There should be no conditions put in place in order that we love. For real, and pure love, is unconditional.

Yes this is what I think Jesus meant when he said to come to him like that of a child.

My God Bless

Tex

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Comment by Randi "Tex"Smith on February 17, 2010 at 2:08pm
Right on Sis!
Comment by Dianne Perry on February 17, 2010 at 1:48pm
Hi Randi

I guess this is what William Butler Yeats meant when he said......

The innocent and the beautiful have no enemy but time.

Love Sis
Comment by Randi "Tex"Smith on February 17, 2010 at 10:44am
Right on Juline!
It really is all about the Love. And I do the same, at least I try very har, to keep it all simple. There is no need for me complicating things. It is complex enough as it is without my adding to the confusion; life that is.
Although it all sounds so simple, it is very hard by times to do.
By loving my kids and my nieceses and nephew, that is not all that hard. Yet, if I am honest, although I always love them, sometimes it is hard to show them. Why? Generally it is has something to do with the complexities of life.....
May you have a Blessed day!
Tex
Comment by Juline Bruck on February 17, 2010 at 7:07am
Amen! I have read those statements from Jesus many times. I did not really understand them until I was a parent. Children before that were 'cute'.. they were not 'profound'. The surprise I had the first time that I heard 'out of the mouth of babes' remarks that showed me!

I think the challenge for a parent is to help the child transition from the babymoon phase where all we do is love on them... to the teaching phase where we have to show them life.. is to keep the love around them all the time. So many children believe that they must perform to get love.. almost like dancing bears to get food.

Little children expect to be loved. I was sitting in a women's shelter, holding a child and looking up at the stars, pointing out the constellations. We were both enjoying each other's company. The child rested her head on my shoulder. She said "You love me." To her, it was that simple.

I wasn't her mother, but she was willing to accept my feelings without conditions. I try hard to keep it simple.

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