who can truely forgive the person, hurt you and your kids.

my first merriage with 10years ended when i be came a Christian. My first husband and I are doing the drugs and alcohols of abuse, we lived life with out the JESUS. When My 2nd Child was born, I was already inpatient in Hospital for 4 months later I have a 2nd child. I almost die, didn`t wake up for both time having a 2kids on C- section. When I was wake up pretty much scared, so little old lady tolded me about the LORD JESUS, because of Grace of GOD I turn around, but my exhusband was not, and have a girl friend asked for a divorce, that is why ended first merrage. i did remerried, almost 10years merriage is over, because my elder daughter was 15years old she told me, my 2nd husband molsted her, she was old enough to told me what are happened, first i didn`t bleieved what she say, because at that time she was trouble maker in school and home, in ather hand this man is known as meek and gentile man from the people,( blieve or not untill this day some of friend to us didn`t blieve me or talk to me what are happening about molesting issue) but this kind of problem is not my own to taking care, i toke my kids to police station to make statements, but soon to fined out DA office say it con`t do any thing, because all "she say he say" but same time my kid does not see his face again any where not even court. this is my biggest trail ever went through, my kid told me that he tolded to my kid ,if they say anything about molesting issue he tolded to my kid he is going to kill everybody, and told me uselly when i go to work at night, or going to prayer meeting in friday nights. so i was very sick emotionly and start my health was failing to the couldn`t eat or do anything for almost 3years with angry at the GOD,why? why?why? and heart`s crying for not protecting them when they need me. i  when to the nightwork, the pizza place for working for living, and when to the CHURCH to praying for the lost souls, because when I excepted JESUS IS MY LORD and SAVIOR, the love of the FATHER`S salvation plan is so awesome it burnning with in my heart, so i be came prayer soldier of GOD, but why LORD you didn`t take care of my kids. 3years my struggle with question for GOD, i used to go to hurnting, i even taking care of this issue my own way, put hurnting gun in my car one last time i am praying to the LORD, but sooni hear the voice saying "LOVE YOUR ENEMIES, HATE THE SIN NOT THE MAN, BECAUSE OF SIN I COME TO SAVE THE LOST SOULS" i cry alot, then i say "ok LORD, your WORD with in my heart, give me a forgiving SPIRIT  to forgiving the  man, so much bring pain and the suffering to my kid and me, then i will forgiving him. thank GOD for a forgiving SPIRIT, and thank GOD for my kids. one sunday at cCHURCH, my kid write the my journal book page; THE LOVE IS GTEATER THEN HATEand told me ' mom forgive him and go on life like we do" that was almost to end of 3years journey of my hardship life became ended, now this is me and my kids of the testimony to tell others to learn about the sins and forgiveness and the SALVATION PLAN of the FATHER`S LOVE. THE LOVE THAT CONQUER THE SINS OR THE ENEMIES.<:>< mia